I hear my own son working on homework saying, “I don’t get it!” I sit in youth facilities each week and hear them say, “I don’t get it!” I look at our education system in high school and the lack of arts, vocation, or creative ways to present the material and I say, “I don’t get it!”
I get to be with youth everyday that don’t get it, most don’t get a dad, most don’t get help with and academics, most are reading at only a 4th grade reading level, most don’t have any support or reason to show up for school, and most had to stay at home to watch siblings while mom goes to her third job. Education has such a big influence on success of a youth after they turn 18!
You can help! We might not be able to change the education system but you can help support youth who need one-on-one time to work through their education, help them with the motivation necessary to be in that trade that would fit them better. See the greatness in them and walk through small goals, encouraging them along the way. It is so important to catch our young people doing something right! Why do we default to just yelling at them for what they’ve done wrong!
A caring adult mentor who cares about youth can change a young person’s life completely. Support, consistency, care, empathy, listening. prayer, asking good questions, pushing them to achieve their goals, patience, seeking to understand, earning trust are all descriptors of our best mentors! Our youth have the deck stacked against them from day one, we can help turn the odds and show up in their lives.
Start with your own children. How about other friend’s kids? Your neighbor’s children? It doesn’t have to be complicated but education and mentoring can keep a young person on the right track!